Redundancy doesn’t only affect the person who receives the notice — it affects the whole household. My wife experienced waves of anxiety, especially as it happened just before Lunar New Year. We didn’t want to share the burden with friends or family at first.
Later, the severance package offered some comfort, but the uncertainty still lingers. She even considered whether she should step down from her Bible study leadership role and look for work. I believe it is possible to lead, work, and care for the family all at once, though I also acknowledge it’s not easy.
I admit I can be a "tiger husband" — always encouraging (or pushing) her to drive more, take on leadership, or balance more responsibilities. Whether it’s highway driving or helping with BSF or even part-time work, I believe in growth through challenges.
As for our children, they have adapted surprisingly well. We started holding family meetings to help them express their thoughts since early 2024. My son earned a merit in his Grade 1 piano exam, and the best part is he practiced on his own with genuine interest. That, to me, is priceless.
(Summarised, translated, and polished by ChatGPT 4o on 2/May/2025)
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